Why are the men of society sexist against boys?
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I have some questions about the use of nudity and physical injury used as punishments for pre-adolescent children. Sadly, there are places in the world, where such inhuman practices are tolerated.
In cultures where these "disciplines" are accepted:
1. Women are allowed to punish girls and boys.
2. Men are only allowed to punish boys.
3. Punishment of girls [by women obviously] is done in private where no men/boys can see
4. Punishment of boys [by men] is done in the open
Due to this societally-enforced anti-male sexism. Men treat girls better* than boys, while women treat kids equally regardless of gender.
*better = more compassion, more sympathy, more respect, more gentleness, more easiness, more empathy, more cleanliness, more protection, more luxury, more personal space, more privacy, more security, more freedom, etc.
In the the case where there are no female staff, girls can get away with anything. This is unfair for boys.
Why does society force men to treat girls better* than boys? I see no logic in doing this.
In any case, corporal punishment is something I am strongly against. No child [boy or girl] should be beaten. As for nudity, that really disturbs me. Any adult -- regardless of gender -- who makes a child naked is a sick animal who needs to be branded a pedophile and imprisoned for the rest of his/her life.
Also, if a boy hits a girl, the adult male on-lookers discipline him more harshly than they would discipline a girl who hits a boy. In addition, if a boy and a girl get into a fight, the adult male on-lookers blame the boy and sympathize with the girl, even if she started it. This seems to be true regardless of the age of the kids.
On average, the adult woman:
1. Is physically weaker than the adult man
2. Is more emotional than the adult man content from pregnancy question and answersRenting&RealEstate
3. Is better behaved than the adult man
4. Is far more likely to be a victim of opposite-gender violence [e.g. violence may be sexual, domestic, or spousal abuse] than the adult man
5. Can get or be pregnant whereas the adult man can't
6. Is physically more delicate than the adult man
I therefore understand that:
1. Women need - and should be provided with - more protection against men, than visa versa
2. Women need - and should be provided with - more protection against men, than adults of the same gender from each other
However, the same does not apply to boy-child vs. girl-child.
So why does society make it's men/boys treat girl-children better than boy-children?
This anti-boy socialization of children can cause a boy to develop a strong dislike for girls. It can cause him to lose the respect and compassion he would otherwise have for girls. It can also start a victim-perpetrator cycle, in which the boy while take revenge against society by abusing girls. Why doesn't society understand this?
If a man/boy mistreats a girl, chances are that man/boy was victimized by society's anti-boy sexism when he was a child. He is trying to punish society for gender-discriminating against him when he was a child. I'm not trying to justify abuse of girls. I'm just saying that boys should be treated just as good as girls. Children are our most precious -- regardless of gender.
At the end of the day, if society wants one gender of children to be safe, they have to make sure to cater to the needs of the other gender as well.
Injustice against one group, eventually leads to members of the other group falling under attack.
Thank you all for your inputs,
Warm Heart
I have some questions about the use of nudity and physical injury used as punishments for pre-adolescent children. Sadly, there are places in the world, where such inhuman practices are tolerated.
In cultures where these "disciplines" are accepted:
1. Women are allowed to punish girls and boys.
2. Men are only allowed to punish boys.
3. Punishment of girls [by women obviously] is done in private where no men/boys can see
4. Punishment of boys [by men] is done in the open
Due to this societally-enforced anti-male sexism. Men treat girls better* than boys, while women treat kids equally regardless of gender.
*better = more compassion, more sympathy, more respect, more gentleness, more easiness, more empathy, more cleanliness, more protection, more luxury, more personal space, more privacy, more security, more freedom, etc.
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In the the case where there are no female staff, girls can get away with anything. This is unfair for boys.
Why does society force men to treat girls better* than boys? I see no logic in doing this.
In any case, corporal punishment is something I am strongly against. No child [boy or girl] should be beaten. As for nudity, that really disturbs me. Any adult -- regardless of gender -- who makes a child naked is a sick animal who needs to be branded a pedophile and imprisoned for the rest of his/her life.
Also, if a boy hits a girl, the adult male on-lookers discipline him more harshly than they would discipline a girl who hits a boy. In addition, if a boy and a girl get into a fight, the adult male on-lookers blame the boy and sympathize with the girl, even if she started it. This seems to be true regardless of the age of the kids.
On average, the adult woman:
1. Is physically weaker than the adult man
2. Is more emotional than the adult man content from pregnancy question and answersRenting&RealEstate
3. Is better behaved than the adult man
4. Is far more likely to be a victim of opposite-gender violence [e.g. violence may be sexual, domestic, or spousal abuse] than the adult man
5. Can get or be pregnant whereas the adult man can't
6. Is physically more delicate than the adult man
I therefore understand that:
1. Women need - and should be provided with - more protection against men, than visa versa
2. Women need - and should be provided with - more protection against men, than adults of the same gender from each other
However, the same does not apply to boy-child vs. girl-child.
So why does society make it's men/boys treat girl-children better than boy-children?
This anti-boy socialization of children can cause a boy to develop a strong dislike for girls. It can cause him to lose the respect and compassion he would otherwise have for girls. It can also start a victim-perpetrator cycle, in which the boy while take revenge against society by abusing girls. Why doesn't society understand this?
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If a man/boy mistreats a girl, chances are that man/boy was victimized by society's anti-boy sexism when he was a child. He is trying to punish society for gender-discriminating against him when he was a child. I'm not trying to justify abuse of girls. I'm just saying that boys should be treated just as good as girls. Children are our most precious -- regardless of gender.
At the end of the day, if society wants one gender of children to be safe, they have to make sure to cater to the needs of the other gender as well.
Injustice against one group, eventually leads to members of the other group falling under attack.
Thank you all for your inputs,
Warm Heart
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Because most of those men have been raised by feministic, female-dominated households growing up. The fa**ots you see in politics are feminized manginas.
Have you ever watched a Charlie Brown Special? When adults speak all you hear is, waaa waaaa wa wa wa. Your post made about that much sense to me. Maybe you just needed to vent?
nothing wrong with spanking
I haven't a clue what you're talking about because I see fathers discipline girls all the time... content from pregnancy question and answersRenting&RealEstate
and if you are accusing every parent who has ever given their child a spanking bare bottom of being a pedophile, that was very rude and not true just for your information.
and if you are accusing every parent who has ever given their child a spanking bare bottom of being a pedophile, that was very rude and not true just for your information.
I'm interested to know which cultures you are talking about, because I've never seen this in the UK. Though I suspect it may have been the case a couple of generations back. I do remember my mum saying "wait till your dad gets home" to my brothers but not me. But only when they were teenagers and she wasn't able to get through to them (I expect she felt she could empathise better with a child of her own sex).
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