My 12yr old son is having problems at school should I go the

The principal will be your antagonist.
A principle is what you are fighting for.

What types of problems? If I were you I would first go in with the intentions of trying to do what is best for your child, and then the Principal will not be as likely to be on the defensive and more willing to work with you. If you go in to see him while in a huff he will sense it real quick and not be as willing to listen. I feel your pain, I have been there and some teachers and principals just aren't willing to listen. I would approach it with an open mind and just say you are aware there are some issues and would like to find some ways to hopefully resolve the problems and hopefully help your son get through this. I would also request to include the school social worker and teacher, so that everyone is on the same page. If this doesn't work there is always a school board member you can see or a school board meeting. Good luck!

You do not give enough details to accurately give an answer. However, its more than likely your child that is causing the problem and not the pricipal. Its really annoying when people think their kids can do no wrong and the teachers and everyone else at the school is the enemy. Whatever the situation you need to go to the school and find out the principals side of the story. Do your son a favor and dont make excuses for him if he is wrong or you will have big problems on your hands in the future. I'm not saying your son is the problem, just that usually that is the case because you are only getting one side of the story which is probably highly fabricated.

Only got your VERY confrontational question to work with, so if you want son that fights first and ask question second, than one of governments two largest employer salutes or applauds you he will make a good front line solder or inmate. When you pick up his casket or visit him behind a screen you can blame the principal as a rationalization for parenting job 'well done.' Added details: He has right to shotgun on show and shoot day.

I'm not sure I understand how your being arrested for assault is going to help your son! Try TALKING to the principal with an open mind, and remember not to make any judgements before you hear BOTH sides of the story. It's possible your son might have left out some important details!

Yes. You need to go and speak to Him and find out what is happening. One it shows the school you are involved and shows your son you care enough to get involved, besides there are two sides to every situation.

I won't suggest fighting the principal but you may need to talk with him/her so that together, you can try to get the problems resolved.

Boring troll.

Only if you know you will win.