say your daughter says she's pregnant and then drop

Say your daughter says she's pregnant and then drops the bomb, she giving it up for adoption?
would you say its fare to say get out and fend for your self ...i mean giving away your grandchild with a care for what you might think...you teach them right from wrong and then wham..its every one Else's fault except their own.. ..god i dunno....what do you do.? why are young woman so selfish and uncaring about their own flesh and blood...you wouldn't think a pill was invented or a condom would you..
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God forbid it to happen but if my eldest daughter came to me saying she was pregnant and wished to give her child away for adoption,I would bring the child up myself.
These idiots saying how selfish you are being are idiots themselves,probably with no children,I agree with you,,you are 'allowed' to have a reaction to this situation and it's only human nature to feel angry when you have put alot in to something (in this case raising your daughter with morals and responsibility),for them to then take no heed of what they have been taught and carelessly get themselves pregnant!. pregnancy question and answers
Of course any loving mother will eventually support their daughter but surely it is far wronger letting your daughter shirk her new responsibilities than just cop out with adoption?.
I would definately adopt the child and then actively encourage my daughter to become 100% involved in his/her upbringing.

I really do wish you AND your daughter the very best of luck!!,Things will work out in the end.xx

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Mum of 4 Girls
I would tell her to research all of her options and pick the one that she feels is best for her. and I would let her know that I will stand by her with whatever decision she makes. Depending on her age, I would have her "fend for herself" but not completely. It's her responsibility but she's still a child herself and needs help. I would do whatever it took to accomidate her decisions with school. School is very important especially if she wants to be able to support her child later in life.
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You apparently aren't aware that the condom and pill, even combined, aren't 100% effective. Things happen.
You are the one being selfish making this all about you when it has nothing to do with you. She also isn't ruining her life. She's just changing it. She can still live a perfectly full and happy life.

Make sure adoption is what she REALLY wants before she goes though with it. This is a decision that she will have to live with for the rest of her life.
wow your a selfish person, she would of spent agonising hours over the decision and if she has come to that decision deal with it!

i think she is a sensible girl for realising a baby isnt what she wants but she is going to kill it but give it to someone who has probably longed for a chil for years and years but cant!

if you want a baby have your own!

you are horrible!

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birth mother and 29 weeks 1 day pregnant with baby boy
If my daughter wanted to give her baby up for adoption I would support her as best I could. I'm sure that was a very difficult decision and she needs your help not your criticism. pregnancy question and answersNewborn&Baby

People give babies up for adoption bc they feel that an adoptive parents can provide a better life for the baby. It isn't easy and it doesn't mean she doesn't care about the kid.
This kind of hard. My daughter only 21 months old right now. I wouldn't kick her out or anything if she came to me telling me she pregnant. We would talk about it. If she wanted to give the baby up for adoption. I have no problem with this. Especially if she a teen herself. I would ask her some question want she thinks of adoption or me taking care of her child while she finish school and work if she wanted to.

I would rather see them giving the baby up for adoption then killing it.
I'd say "Cool, I will fill out the adoption papers to adopt my grandchild". If you want your grandchild in your life then you adopt the baby and keep the baby in your family. You can't fix your daughter's choices but you can do what is right for your grandchild.
Get over yourself.Not everyone is ready to be a parent.Also, I don't know if you have heard or not, but NO form of birth control is 100% effective.If you care so much for your grand kid, why don't YOU take custody of the baby? pregnancy question and answersNewborn&Baby


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