Want a baby badly? Need to get rid of the thought ?

Im 15 years old obviously im not planning on having a kid for a few years yet so don't worry about that (:

But since i was like 13 i have wanted a kid. I did help in a nursery with under 2's and it was very tiring but i loved it.
I just love the thought of being able to spoil your baby rotten and care for it any everything like that :]
i always get really jealous when i see people with babies because i really want one.

Me and my mum have had this conversation before and she said if i do ever get pregnant then i can find somewhere else to live. So i have to wait until im about 20.

Am i normal or weird? help :(

i feel the same, ive always wwanteed my own baby girl where i can spoil her and dress her in cute clothes and make her hair all pretty and stuff, you are deffiniatly not weird. im around the same age as you. dont worry. just think of other things like having fun with your friends right now. maybe you shouldnt think of having a baby but think of the things you want to do for your baby when your older and u actually have one and yeah. dont worry. xoxox.
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-bubba

Personal Experience.

i feel the same way and i am 12. i want 4 boys and i have a niece and nephew that are 1.5 yrs old and i love them to death and want a little baby sibling that i can see all the time i would never thnk of trying to have a baby before im married though!

you can borrow my baby for a week by then you won't want one

sasa

I felt the same way when I was your age. I ended up having my first baby when I was 18 and am not pregnant with my 2nd. I would definitely wait until you are out of high school and at least have a career plan. I have a great husband that supports us so I am able to go to school full time and take care of our daughter. Unless you are lucky enough to have the same situation- wait until you have a good paying, stable job. Trust me having a baby is expensive and hard work but when the time is right- it is totally doable and the best experience in the world!

Mommy of 1 and prego with #2

well its sort of normal. its normal in that most people want great things for their kids, and they want to play dress up and cuddle and then send them home to mommy with other peoples kids. Careers_Employment pregnancy.yifei8.netParenting

its a little less normal that you don't see that a 15 year old cant possibly earn enough money to spoil let alone provide properly for a baby. sorry, but your labour (in the workforce) just won't be worth enough.

and also, you didn't mention the very real possibility that your baby is born with a disability, or you miscarry, or theres sickness, or any of those other HORRIBLE things that happen to parents who do absolutely nothing wrong.

if your partner has been working for a while instead of going to school, and makes enough money to provide, and you're ready to potentially deal with anything bad that might happen, then go for it!!!!

otherwise, maybe still to babysitting for a few more years.

good luck!