URGENT HELP PLASE WITH SON?

MY SON LISTENS TO HIP HOP MUSIC WITH BAD WORDS AND REFRENCES TO DRUGS SEX AND OTHER. HE DOWNLOAD OFF INTERNET HE ONLY 10 AND I THINK ILLEGAL ALSO HE I FOUND GAY PORN ON HIS COMPUTER.

WHAT CAN I SAY TO HIM WHEN I CONFRONT HIM?

sorry for caps. i dont want to rewrite hole thing again.

I think this person is a joke. don't answer anymore of her questions.... check her profile, her questions are all about gays and how much she hates them. Check her questions before giving a full hearted answers.... thought you should know.

How old is he? Maybe trying to put some parent controls on your internet access would prevent him from downloading things that aren't appropriate for his age. Careers_Employment pregnancy.yifei8.netParenting

For confronting him you are going to have to be the parent and tell him while he lives in your house he lives by your rules and maybe he wasn't aware before but their are some rules and those consist of no music referring to drugs, sex and using foal language, no looking at porn, _____, ______etc. Lay down the law and what you expect of him.

The music isn't that bad its not like hes some disturbed child. ( I hope )
But confront him calmly about the porn thats kind of odd for that age. And if he
says no give him the benifit of the doubt the 1st time. But don't fly off the handle if it
happens againJust be more strict, and tell him what you think.
But just tell him to watch what he listens toand if he has an i-pod monitor what
songs go on there if you really want to. Thats really not a big deal
though its probably like a phase hes going through maybe next month
he'll be into country. Dont stress its normal.

how about locking the computer down so he cant access that crap and being a parent. he cant listen to that music and watch porn if you dont allow him access to it. row a set and make him do what he needs to do. if he doesnt like it then discipline him, its your job.