I gave my son up for adoption to my parents? years ago?

I gave my son up for adoption to my parents? years ago?
I have a big issue with my son who is 18 years old when my wife and I had him we gave him to my parents because we couldn’t care and give him the stuff my parents could. My mother passed away 13 months ago and my father passed on 2 months ago. My parents left a lot of properties, the family business, a substantial amount of money and the manor that has been in the family since the 16th century. I called my parents lawyer to see who gets what he just said my son was named the only living heir to my parents estate and gets everything. I called my son asking if he would give the manor to me since my father said long ago I would get it he said no. I don’t know what to do? Get a lawyer? Can I sue my son? I feel that some of the stuff belongs to me and my wife.

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See this is why you should have worked your a$$ off to keep and raise your son. You showed you were a slacker so you got left nothing. They figured you would buy drugs with whatever they left you so they didn't to leave you with anything. Should of grown up and been a man. Act like a boy get treated like a boy, act like a man get treated like a man. ~ life
Well, as much as I want to call "BS" on this I'll answer by stating that your parents saw fit to leave their estate to their son and as such that was their wishes. Unless you can prove that the will is false or that the contents of it were written under duress there isn't much that can be done as I know it. Sue if you want but all that will do is make the lawyers rich.
You can't do a darn thing, you have nothing in writing that states your father said you could have the manor.Your mother and father left it to your son and that is the way it is. If your parents wanted you to have anything they would have left in their will. You are wasting your time and money because you will lose.
Um.. seems weird that your parents wouldn't have given you anything.. but I think it's pretty crappy to sue your son over it. You can provide for yourself, I'm assuming, and he is just starting out on life and at least will be able to get his college education. It's pretty selfish that you would try and take it away...

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I mean, from an outsiders perspective, if you parents decided only to give everything to him, it seems like they'd have to have a damn good reason not to give you anything at all.
It was your parents choice what they did and as your son was their grandson as well as their legal son then he is entitled to what he has been left.

If you feel that strongly about it see a lawyer and find out where you stand legally. The only reason I am suggesting this is because people can contest wills in the UK.
I don't think you are entitled to any of the properties. Just my personal opinion.

Get a lawyer. If they left it to him in a will, they probably made sure that it wouldn't be easy to contest it, so it might get expensive.
Your parents did what they thought was right you cant take that way from your son. It would not be fair or right. I dont even think a lwyer could help you that was their will not yours. you said that they could give him what your couldnt so it sounds like they did.
This is something that you need to talk to a lawyer about. This is sad to think that this may put a real damper on any good future relationship with your son. Hopefully you can get this worked out. Good luck.
Do they have manors in the US? From the 16th century? Really? copyright pregnancy question and answers,Other-Business&Finance

Because you do realise that much of the language you are using is intrinsically American, right?
Your parents obviously didn't think so if they put it in their will that just their grandson got everything. You could always speak to a lawyer regarding it, but I don't see things changing.
Parents usually leave property to their children and don't take it from them. What's more, it seems that the real parents of your son are his grandparents.
If you sue your son. The lawyer will end up with it all. I feel it is staying in the family its going to your son.
there was no America in the 16th century. If this is true(which I doubt) Do you mean the 1600's.? Either way deal with it. Do you want to annihilate your son?

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